WATCH THE TRAILER

“This film and the broader campaign provokes deep questions and addresses the nature of the human heart, with an emphasis on compassion, forgiveness, justice, and generosity, It is meant to provide new ways of looking at how to cope with the hatred that is plaguing our present time.”

-Lukas Behnken, Director/Producer

FIND YOUR DOCUMENTARY EXPERIENCE

  • LIVE Side Hug Community Show

    Join us every Wednesday night at 7:30P EST for a live show that uses I Hate You, But It’s Killing Me as a springboard into all the self-care and mindfulness topics covered in the film.

    Previous guests include Vic Blends, Bobby Orme, Carla Peluso, Kate Rife, and Monte Cruz-Seymour.

    You can watch and rewatch all of the previous shows inside the community. There’s a brief signup process, and your free access starts immediately!

    Choose the plan, Community Pass and follow the short three steps that follow.

  • Premiere Experience

    “What a magical night” -Attendee

    ”Seeing these issues in this movie made me realize how big of a part of my own life they are. Something needs to change in my life.”

    Relive the Premiere and experience incredible moments from:

    Director Lukas Behnken - Producer of the award-winning documentary “MULLY"

    Cast members Sammy Rangel, Donnie Williams, Adrian Bone, and Kate Grosmaire.

    Motivational speaker Craig Scott.

    Poetry and Performances from Arielle Estoria:

  • Host Your Own Experience

    “I Hate You, But It’s Killing Me” and its community, “Hug Out Hate,” are more than a single event. It’s a roadshow of healing ready to come to your organization, school, or church. The speakers, interviews, engaging narrative videos, and workshop series were all crafted to start and support the dialogue around overcoming hate in our community and ourselves. Here’s how Vous Church turned this material into an eternal experience for their church: CLICK HERE

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